Non-monogamy, on the other hand, makes no promises on behalf of anyone.It not only leaves the negotiation to the people involved, it requires that they engage in negotiation. Non-monogamy reduces one’s ability to make assumptions about their partners, and this is a true asset.Furthermore, it creates more engaged partnerships, for it nurtures the autonomy of partners.“Non-monogamy makes no promises”, “it leaves the negotiation to the people involved”, “it requires that they engage in negotiation”, “non-monogamy reduces one’s ability to make assumptions about their partners”, “it creates more engaged partnerships, for it nurtures the autonomy of partners”.

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I can agree that I didn’t explicitly what ethical non-monogamy is.

An ethical relationship (be it monogamous or non-monogamous) is one in which the participants know their own needs, their own desires, they know what they can offer, they know what they do not want to offer, they know their own boundaries and their rights, they reflect on all of those things, they know how they want to be treated, they know how to treat the other(s) by means of open and direct communication, negotiation, honesty, fairness, consent, not reducing the other(s)’s agency and autonomy, by not limiting their ability to express their needs, desires and offers, by guaranteeing the respect of their human rights and by respecting them as humans at all times. treating others in a way one would want to be treated and one would want everybody treated everybody else, and 2.

not valuing the relationship itself as something to be retained at all cost so that people involved in the relationship are depraved of their rights.

Those things lack in the examples of non-ethical non-monogamy that I have stated in my reply (FLDS-polygyny, hierarchical polyfidelous structures and traditional polyandrynous marriages in Tibet).

"Ethical non-monogamy" is a great term that encompasses all the ways that you can consciously, with agreement and consent from all involved, explore love and sex with multiple people.1) Polyamory This word literally means loving many. A "quad" or foursome, and groups larger in size with various agreements. 2) Swinging The general idea is that you engage in sex play, but aren't looking to develop a long-term relationship.

Polyamorous people are usually interested in living together and growing deeper bonds. Some swingers are in a committed relationship and go to swing parties together to find a single or a couple to play with.

4) Primary Relationships and Secondary Relationships Some people configure their relationships with a central (primary) relationship and one that is more "on the side" (secondary).

Others find these distinctions insulting, making the secondary person feel, well, secondary.5) Sexually Monogamous Polyamory Hang in there, did I just confuse you?

There are folks who have a beloved that they are married to or live with, and also have someone else that they are in love with and/or have a deep erotic attraction to but do not have sex with.