“I’m a moderately smart person, but I’m no genius – I’m sure of that,” writes author Chad Eastham.

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If you’re an intelligent man who is usually smarter than most of the people you meet, it can be frustrating to realize that other guys with far less brain power than you seem to be fighting women off with a stick. Why isn’t your intelligence giving you a clear advantage when it comes to women? So, why can’t you accurately answer the question of why you aren’t getting the girls?

Throughout your life, your above average intelligence has allowed you to pass tests with ease and pretty much always know the right, no matter what the question is. Well, it’s not for a lack of trying or due to a lack of academic intelligence.

The reason why you can’t answer the question of what it takes to be successful with women, is that you’re looking at it with clouded vision.

Since you are so used to being right and have always been able to use your intelligence to come up with a solution, you probably think that the way you’ve been approaching your dating life is CORRECT and everyone else must be CRAZY for not seeing things the way you do.

For example: Some intelligent guys believe that women should choose guys based on niceness and intelligence.

Yet, no matter how nice they are or how much they demonstrate their intelligence during a conversation, women still aren’t interested.This leads some intelligent men to conclude that women are crazy and must only want bad boys, which isn’t the correct answer. As you will discover in the video above, there is NOTHING wrong with being nice to a woman, but it isn’t the thing that makes her wet or turns her on.If you want to turn women on during a conversation, you have to do things like flirt with her, display confidence, use humor and make her feel girly in response to your masculinity.Then, when she feels attracted to you, she will come to appreciate the fact that you are ALSO a highly intelligent, good guy.She will then feel lucky to be talking to you and will be love the fact that you have a brain.Just because a man is academically intelligent (e.g.